Edmund William

Oakes

In Loving Memory of Ed Oakes

Ed was a man of remarkable strength, determination, knowledge, and heart. He was passionate about helping others, sharing what he knew, and encouraging the people around him to become the very best versions of themselves. He loved his family and friends deeply and touched countless lives through his generosity, compassion, and willingness to help.

Anyone who knew Ed knew that he had an incredible passion for health and wellness. Whether discussing nutrition, supplements, hormone replacement therapy, or the importance of eating enough protein, Ed was always eager to share his knowledge. Affectionately nicknamed “Dr. Oakes,” he had an extraordinary ability to research, understand, and explain complex topics. More importantly, he genuinely wanted to use that knowledge to help others feel better, live healthier, and improve their lives. A conversation with Ed rarely ended without learning something new.

Ed’s dedication and attention to detail were evident throughout his professional life. He began his career in his twenties as a professional tile setter, becoming an exceptionally skilled craftsman who took tremendous pride in his work. No matter how big or small the job, Ed believed in doing it right and giving it his very best.

In 2008, Ed joined Southern California Edison in Substation Construction & Maintenance’s Civil Department. Driven by his desire to learn and grow, he entered the Construction Electrician Apprenticeship, becoming a journeyman, and later completed the Substation Maintenance Electrician Apprenticeship, earning journeyman status in that craft as well. For the last three years of his career, Ed served as a Field Safety Advisor supporting substations and grid operations.

Ed exemplified what it meant to be a dedicated safety professional. His extensive field experience, technical knowledge, and unwavering commitment to protecting others earned him the respect of those he worked alongside. He was never afraid to speak up, address difficult issues, or advocate for doing what was right. Behind his direct approach was a genuine concern for the safety and well-being of others.

Outside of work, Ed found happiness in life’s many experiences. He loved spending time with his family, going to the movies, enjoying nature, and tending to plants and gardens, especially alongside his son, Grantley. He also had a knack for finding just the right funny or informative Reel to send to a friend or loved one, often simply because it reminded him of them or because he thought it might brighten their day.

Another great passion in Ed’s life was Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu. He earned his purple belt and was affectionately known as “Animal Strength” for his extraordinary physical strength and ability on the mat. He loved the sport, the discipline, and the friendships it brought into his life. True to his nature, Ed enthusiastically shared that passion with others, encouraging many friends and acquaintances to give Jiu-Jitsu a try. Several of those he inspired continue practicing today, carrying forward something he loved so much.

Ed was a devoted husband and father who cherished his family. He is survived by Renee, his wife and partner of 32 years, and their beloved children, Grantley and Gracie; his mother, Barbra Tenner; his stepfather, Ralph Todhunter; and his brothers, Michael Oakes, Sam Todhunter, and Preston Todhunter.

Ed will be remembered for his strength, his intelligence, his humor, his kindness, and his desire to make a difference in the lives of others. He believed in continually learning, growing, and challenging ourselves to do better. He gave generously of his knowledge, his time, and his heart.

His legacy lives on in the people he helped, the friends he inspired, the lives he touched, and the family who will forever carry his love with them.

He will be deeply loved, profoundly missed, and always remembered.